Yang Anger

Wrote this on Valentines Day during a bout of long-covid.

 Theories on sexuality

Yang is assertiveness and associates with anger. It has the same root word. 

Yin is receptive and yielding. 

We assign Yin as a feminine quality because femininity is Yin by nature, although it is correct to see it the other way around, that Yin is feminine by nature. This is a mistake in the teachings/translations and a common misperception. Especially in this era of chemical hormonal disrupters  and social agendas where we have masculinised women and feminised men. 

Why couples argue is because an imbalance in yin/yang in the individuals which spills over to affect the relationship. 

Sex balances the yin/yang balance in both individuals. It does this from the root chakra which is associated with sexuality and anger. The act of sex harmonises the couple by harmonising both individuals, if it is good sex. 

Determining if it is good sex requires assessing whether the result is that both individuals and the relationship is now more balanced than before the act of sex. The criteria for really good sex is to assess are the couple now more loving and heart centred than before. 

Traditionally, naturally, does he feel more manly yet stable and does she feel more feminine yet stable. 

The need for sex is yang on both parts. It is assertive, it is a driving force. 

Panda, who habitually addicted to bamboo in their natural environment had as a result excess yin and although happy were not outgoing and active, were not yang assertive. Their species was dying out from not breeding. They chose drugs over sex.