CulturalWisdom

When people destroy the wisdom-keepers and leaders, that does not make them stronger. It weakens and destroys the community. 

Weak people create misery in others for personal empowerment. 

Their rising social status does not make them a stronger person even if it gives them authority over even weaker people which can be maintained only by the weaker people continuing to weaken and destroy the stronger people. It’s doomed to die. 

Strong people create Harmony within the community and protect individuals from those who use pressure and manipulation to create segregation and depression. 

The voices of those persecuted and in isolation are equally as valid as the voices of the ones shouting them down. But why would they should then down? What do they fear they may say? 

Narcissism has a four-step strategy. It emerged from Modernism. It puts the weak person in position of the strong person by disempowering the strong person. 

In BDSM cultural blueprint it is the role of Brat or ‘topping from the bottom’. Those who behave that way are either shunned or disciplined appropriately by those who know what they’re doing; which is never cruelty. 

1 cause drama 

2 target reacts 

3 loudly criticise the reaction

4 deny causing drama

Step 4 claims the target is lying about (1) in addition to (2) describe the reaction as causing drama (1). 

How To Break Out Of This Cycle?

Possibilities. 

Equalise the field requires to negate all evidence and ignore all feelings. This is inhumane. This is not a successful resolution. 

Segregation is effective but if the goal of the Narcissist is to isolate their target, it results in the problem maker achieves their goal at the cost of their target. That is not a successful resolution. 

Trade and its relative, mutual reliance. Trade increases prosperity for all. It results in integration. It can be regarded a successful resolution. 

Overcoming 

“There is nothing they have which we could possible need.” 

Scenarios 

We need to cohabit peacefully for mutual stability. 

We need soap, food, warm dry dwellings, shared company, exploration; 

derivatives of these categories. 

Industries form around these simple needs.

The foreign enemy does not have inferior quality equivalent. It has mysterious and exciting difference from the normal we take for granted. It is marketing gold and these is plenty of it during a prolonged integration which is slowed to avoid wholesale cultural assimilation. 

The celebration of differences comes hand in hand with the awakening of we are all the same despite our differences. 

Are We All The Same? 

When the weak destroy the wisdom-keepers and leaders, what is left is all the same. This is why we need wisdom-keepers and leaders. 

It is said by the wise, nobody who wants to be a leader should be trusted in that role. 

But what do The Wise know? 

“Dalla told me something once.

Val’s sister, Mance Rayder’s wife.

She said that sorcery was a sword without a hilt. 

There is no safe way to grasp it.”

“A wise woman.” 

Melisandre rose, her red robes stirring in the wind. 

“A sword without a hilt is still a sword, though, 

and a sword is a fine thing to have when foes are all about.”

– A Storm of Swords, George R.R. Martin