Love Was

The sort of sex necessary to grab and control those specific neuron’s and synaptic structures, to grow the brain to develop and hardwire a particular way, following on from previous ‘tenants’ having already been there and created structures of their own. 

She is holding onto the past more than she is building a Now with her partner as evidenced by her refusing to have sex his way and only wanting sex to repeat how she did it with previous partners. Then she will criticise him for not fulfilling her because his neurology and psychology is inevitably different from her previous partners. 

It is her comfort zone, her buffer against emotional loss as she already experienced and which she is attempting to process by the act-stimulation of specific energetic alignment through her. 

Although disappointed with him the new partner will be easier to let go of because of this. She does not want to form a strong bond with the current partner. 

She is using the current partner to let go of someone from her past. When she lets go of the new one her healing from being dumped by the previous one will be relieved. 

It’s a destructive cycle. It’s a black hole. 

Alternately she could work with the new guy to build real-time positive neuron-synaptic structures for a better, higher value experience. 

In sexual relationships THIS is the key for success. 

The problem affecting such unions is the Feminist creed that “All men want is sex and must be punished for that.” 

In Tantra is observed “the way to open a man’s heart is through his genitals, the way to open a woman’s genitals is through her heart.” 

How are heartless and broken hearted people supposed to go about conducting their activities? 

Historically, traditionally, requires one of three methods. 

A loving willing sexual woman working with him. Requires femininity. 

A prostitution who exchanges sexual relief for money or gifts. A strong woman with coping mechanism. 

Rape. Typified by over-masculine forcing a feminine woman who is unable to fight back. 

It is because of rape that women have evolved to form female-exclusive community-groups, very often empowered by bitterness and anger toward all men mixed with the natural need to respect men as protectors. 

A second-level has developed as a result of this confused duality, where the mixed signals women are famous for perpetually ‘testing’ men with, to identify which side of a line a man is, ‘us or them’, whether he can be trusted by one or by the group. 

Trust between genders is a core of a stable community and civilisation. Anything which does not empower that trust is an enemy of stable community and civilisation. 

In our communities, Feminism is responsible for the collective group of women persuading all women to distrust all men even after the men have proved they are safe and can be trusted. The men are tested to death. 

They are singled out and isolated to ‘make a man of them’ or to ‘destroy them for our pleasure oh we mean security’. 

What such men have to go through emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically, to become ‘their full potential’ is a lot of female-to-male domestic abuse. If these targeted men do not break and/or drop out of normative culture, usually by suicide or ‘going gay’. It is a pressure-based society. 

This social pressure results in a further diversion where women turn to other women for gratification and men turn to other men for gratification. It creates segregated gay and lesbian cultures with minimal overlap. 

While we bundle all these into one mixed bag of ‘LGBT+’ the true middle ground between these polarisations is the mainstream heteronormative culture which is the breeding pool involved in successful child raising of adults who can thrive better, as studies have showed. 

This is the exact demographic targeted by the LGBT+ groups for destruction. These non-normative minority groups shout loudly they require protection. 

Noah’s Ark refers to the unborn future generations which are the ecology and the biosphere is all species.  

The sort of sex necessary to grab those neuron’s and synaptic links and re-wire them is when she has trusted her partner sufficiently to allow him to have her his way, to have his way with her, without him having to compromise with her controlling and testing. 

With their programming of each other through sexual-neurological energetic connection. Ideally this is a mutual growing together of shared novel experience to create their own harmonious two-body neural system. 

She living in her full femininity, he living in his full masculinity, both in harmony about their Union. It is why this sort of sexuality is regarded as sacred sexuality, the divine masculine and the divine feminine, Yin and Yang in balance.

The structure of BDSM culture provides a framework by recognising four primary roles of submissive, Dominant, Switch and Brat. There are many sub-categories stemming from each role and overlaps between each role. The development of awareness surrounding these matters since the 1960s ‘S&M’ has established; 

- these are Roles  

- it is not always black & white, hence a need for Switch role

- need for discussion of the roles & expectancies 

- prevalence of the non-conformist Brat role, is entitlement based 

- training is required for orientation 

- consent is imperative 

As a result of cultural man-hate, men are being pushed out of the childcare arena. Boys are not learning how to become men. A woman cannot teach a boy to become a man any more than a man can teach a girl to become a woman. 

We live during an era of gender-bending where the old fashioned traditional hetero-normative cultural roles have already been largely destroyed in Western civilisation. 

A prevalence of single-parent mothers griping about absent fathers and taking it out on a string of disposable lovers who are emotionally and financially exploited for attempting to satisfy the human need for partnership and do their best to raise other mens children without any training in how to deal with any of that. 

This has become the mainstream expectation for almost all men. How do men adapt to that culture-wide situation? 

The Traditional Gender Roles are based on trust and dedication. A sign in my local marriage registry office; 

“Marriage is the world between two people to the exclusion of all others.”  

You don’t have to register (‘transfer title ownership of deeds’) a marriage. The marriage is the relationship. The energy between two people exclusively. It’s an ancient word and concept: 

Ma Ri Ge 

creative manifestation,

emanation of Divinity, 

earthed / the world.