Sharing Experience is the new Pink-Purple
Sex is something which men and women can professionally train at to become excellent at pleasuring a partner, fulfilling their physical needs as well as the overlap into their emotional and mental needs.
Sexual health is not limited to lack of diseases, it’s about ongoing contentment in the same way that mental health is not limited to lack of diseases it’s about ongoing contentment in the same way that physical health is not limited to lack of diseases it’s about ongoing contentment.
This means regularly being satisfied.
I gender identifies as ‘A person’ and ‘happens to be male physically’ and ‘hetero-flexible mentally-emotionally’, switching between yin-submissive and yang-assertive, requiring both those needs to be fulfilled.
It often surprises me how ‘repressed and repressive’ people can be, and how being repressed and being repressive often comes together despite them in theory being mutually exclusive.
This means that when a person goes into the relative danger-zone of being outside of their previous sexual experience, they feel intimidated and uncomfortable. Not only that, they want to repress anybody who has assimilated sexual experiences outside of their own self-limitations.
The extent of this is a very restrictive culture where somebody who you have not previously given sexual consent to, is automatically put into the risk factor category.
There are 8 billion people on this planet, but the most promiscuous woman I’ve ever had discussed sex and sexuality reached her benchmark 100. I have never met a man who has had that nearly that many partners.
Official statistics based on feedback of individuals asked about it, which is a very minority demographic, says the average is about 3 to 5 sexual partners in a lifetime.
There are people out there who have had zero partners which hugely lowers the average. Most people I know I’ve had notably more than that.
It does appear lying about your previous sex experience is the mainstream attitude, which is a terrible situation because dishonesty in any relationship is a terrible thing. It immediately prevents building wholesome strong foundations between people.
Overcoming repression individually and socially as cultural mainstream is imperative for human progress, for stability, comfort and evolution.
When woman realises that she likes a penis inside of her, when a man realises that he likes his penis inside a woman, is one set of data for the brain to process.
When a person has emotional feelings towards another person, that is another set of data for the brain to process.
When people believe it is a good idea for them to get on, and they do get on, that is another set of data for the brains process.
These three areas of data for the brain to process overlap and our interlinked, but not necessarily so and not exclusively so.
“Neurons which fire together wire together.”
“That is how addictions are made.”
The biological function to need regular healthy sex is perhaps the most compelling addiction. The scale of pornography use reveals this. In 2000ad (circa) official statistics showed pornography as 90% of all internet use.
Psychology models following mental health trends reveals we replace repressed sexual desire with other forms of addiction for example substance abuse.
The core of our collective and individual detrimental, detremotional and detrobiological problems is ‘repression’. We observe this on a cultural scale.
The rise of lgbt+ post-millennium has made bisexuality the new normal to such extent it is mainstream. Repressing open curiosity and experience of bisexual activities is now regarded as repressive and damaging.
“There are two (or more) of us here. Let’s not slip into repeating the same routines we did with ex-partners. We are conscious-creators, we are not organic-robots.”
“Some people want to be organic-robots.”
“The you will not complain of trying something new.”
“Empty mind happy pet.”
Links to the Outer World:
US Teens Don’t Get Laid
“Sexuality, an important source of connection and pleasure”
Lily Allen Sex Toy Range
(but not for men)
AirB&B Sex Dungeon Belfast
