The Beating Post
For them to fulfil their drama, they need somebody who is in the role of ‘the bad guy’ for them to buffer against.
Living through that is more important to them than being respectful to their selected target to discover what that persons opinion, attitude, personality, experience with any given matter actually is.
This is usually the person they are relying on, because that is the person whose power they want to take.
Q: Where does that drama come from in the first place? A: Ego.
There are four lessons here.
- Drama is trauma.
- They are ruled by ego.
- They have no empathy for others but demand it from others.
- They are processing and projecting delusion onto others around them.
Most of these points are symptoms of antisocial personality disorder especially in combination.
The question asked by their target is:
Q: What incentive do I have to empower or to associate with this person?
We may expect and even forgive this behaviour from children, inexperienced and undeveloped in self-work and relationship skills.
To give guidance to them is a sign of our own maturity which typically requires decades to master.
Self-work teaches us acceptance and assimilation.
Q: Do we any moral or social obligation have to soak up other peoples unresolved trauma? On their terms?
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