AVOIDING LOSS OF DEPTH
Q: When was the last time you had sex?
A: To answer that properly, i need a more fuller question. Do you mean, when was the last time i had sexual intimacy involving compassion empathy and love, or do you mean, the last time my body was used in two or more people using each other as sex objects? I am not avoiding your question, i am seeking clarity so that i can answer it more properly to do it justice. Is that too much to ask for or does word count make it too complicated to deal with? Do you want a real answer or are you too impatient to cope with real people? Why ask? The only other reasons you would ask that particular question is professionally or because you are interested and the gray line between the two is an arena of many social games. It needs to be black and white but not at the cost of loss of shared comprehension. It needs to be both blackandwhite and meaningful.