Sunday 6 February 2022


Inside a Narcissists Mind pt 3 : ZombieLand

Here is the community version of Narcissism Control Paradigm. Welcome to the power games. 

There are two comparable world views. 

Worldview One is called Outside Observer View.

Worldview Two is called Controlling The Vision

It is like Japanese No-theatre. People unquestioningly fulfil roles within manifestations of unfolding situations and behave accordingly. 

Person A (for accuser, allegation). 

Person B (for bad person).

Person C (for conformist).

Person D (for discriminate). 

Person E (evidence based reality).

WorldView One: Outside Observer

In this world view the Outside Observer is person E. 

Person A makes an allegation against Person B that person B has abused person A

Person C and person D react by hating on person B without seeing any evidence 

Person E asks for evidence to support the allegation made by person A

Person A C and D hate on person E meanwhile no evidence is presented

Person A C and D put person E in the same box as person B, box labelled ‘abuser’ 

It is not recognised by person A C D that person E was thinking clearly about the situation of wanting to see actual evidence before hating on person B. 

Evidence is empirical and will determine one way or another the appropriate and correct course of conduct of all parties. 

WorldView Two: Controlling the Vision

In this world view there is no call for evidence to back allegation therefore person E does not appear. 

Person A makes an allegation against Person B that person B has abused person A

Person C and person D react by hating on person B without seeing any evidence 

Person B is chased out of town / publicly humiliated and shamed / crucified / etc, meanwhile no evidence has been presented. 

Demon Excuse Abuse

Dehumanise Excuses Abuses : Inside a Narcissists Mind pt 2

Narcissistic excuse to dehumanise their target justifies abuse. “This person (target) is not human therefore we can dump hate on it and feel good about that.” 

Dissolving the excuse does not dissolve the justification, it is simply replaced by an alternate excuse. 

1 Make Up Excuse

2 Dehumanise

3 Justify (“align to agenda”)

4 Abuse

It follows the same pattern as Narcissistic Positioning Strategy (see Inside a Narcissists Mind pt 1). 

1 action (by narcissist)

2 reaction (by target)

3 build world based on step 2 

4 deny step 1 and 

   persecute promotors of step 1 

We see a phonetic relationship between the words Dehumanise and Demonise. 

1 Excuse

2 Demonize (target is evil)

3 Justify (narcissist is superior)

4 Abuse (revenge punishment) 

Narcissism and Sado-Masochism within classical BDSM framework. 

The relationship between Narcissist and Empath is well explored in post-millennial public literature during the awakening of Western civilisation to how Modernism (petro-chemical / petro-plastic, industrial exploitation of consumer-capitalism) the 20th century has resulted in widespread Narcissism pandemic which has resulted in NCP (narcissistic control paradigm) wherein the lines are blurred between narcissist and target because of two factors. 

1 all of us have both traits to varying degrees largely because the NAS (narcissistic abuse syndrome) results in narcissism-like behaviour on the part of the PTSD sufferer.

2 Narcissists convince people the narcissist is the victim and their target is the abuser. 

The extremist black & white polarisation is the following cross-paradigm associations: 

Dominant. Narcissist. Sadist. Abuser. 

Submissive. Empath. Masochist. Victim. 

Yang (assertive) and Yin (yielding). 

The narcissist wears masks and can play both roles to suit their agenda. The victim does not necessarily have that skill. Where any person does have that skill is not itself an identifier that the person is by default a narcissist. 

Tuesday 1 February 2022

Narcissistic Empiricism

Narcissistic Empiricism : Inside a Narcissists Mind pt 1

Box 1 Action 
Box 2 Reaction 
Box 3 Build a world on this, 
           ignore box 1 pretend it doesn’t exist 
Box 4 Anyone revealing box 1 exists 
           is persecuted

A narcissistic strategy for domination and control. It involves framing people, denying accountability, creating a situation to exploit people to achieve empowerment. While it is abusive and childish it is also relatively effective. 

The downside is some people can see it for what it is (see box 4). It is relatively effective because many people do not see it for what it is or they accept it, which indicates a disrespect for accountability. 

There is an argument that once a powerbase has been established is easier to conform to that powerbase than to argue against it, especially when it is using offensive strategies to protect itself.